Your dog might be the love of your life, but what happens when you get a love life? Introducing your partner to your beloved pet is one of the most critical parts of having a relationship. Of course, you don't just want them to tolerate each other but actually have a good relationship.
Often, that will depend on how well you handle the introduction. Follow these steps, and your partner will soon be your pup's second-best friend.
Dogs rely on scent for most of their interactions with the world. Chances are, they've already picked up your partner's scent on your clothes and body when you come home from a date or spend some time together.
Take it a step further by taking home your partner's unwashed shirt or another personal item that carries their scent.
Using the borrowed item, create positive experiences with your pup. Let them get a good sniff and reward them with praises, treats, or a good scratch.
The more your dog relates positive experiences to your partner's smell, the better their reaction will be when they finally meet.
A Chihuahua wrapped in a red blanket. Photo by Ebowalker.
A Golden Retriever enjoying some scratches from a new lady. Photo by Adam Griffith.
Getting your partner to enter your home before being properly introduced to your dog might make your pup go on the defensive and try to drive them away.
Let them meet on neutral grounds, and make sure your partner doesn't make the first move. Instead, let your partner wait for your approach. For this step, it's best if your partner has some dog treats at hand.
Let your partner sit on a park bench with some treats. Slowly walk your dog towards your partner and observe how they react. Allow your pup to approach, but hold on to the dog leash and be ready to step in if they show signs of aggression.
Get your partner to toss some treats or even hand some over to your pup directly. If things go smoothly, you're ready to take their introduction home.
Once both your partner and your dog are comfortable with each other's presence, they can continue bonding at home. If your pup isn't used to having guests over, consider that they might become protective over their territory.
Walk in altogether and observe your pup's behavior before letting them run free. This step works best if your partner is equipped with some fun dog toys.
Ask your partner to sit on your couch and relax while holding on to a dog toy. If your pup takes interest, encourage them to play with each other. This reinforces their connection through more positive experiences.
As they continue to interact this way, your dog won't just be open to your partner's presence. They'll actually be excited every time they come over.
Hachi the Shiba Inu enjoying Spark Paws’ Fire Plush Toy.
Some dogs take to new people very quickly while some might be more overprotective or territorial. Don't worry if it takes some time for your pup and partner to be comfortable with each other. What's important is you take it at a pace that your dog is comfortable with so they don't get overwhelmed.
You might need quite a bit of patience. But, once you overcome this hurdle, you'll be able to develop deeper relationships with them both. Besides, caring for your dog might actually help your partner become an even better person.
